Ines-sainz-5 Ines Sainz is a somewhat attractive latina reporter for a Mexican TV station. She covers pro sports, notably the NFL.

She's in the news right now for claiming she was harassed at the NY Jets practice facility recently because they looked at her and whistled at her.

SERIOUSLY?!

Alright, so maybe the guys acted immature and boorish. While I tend to personally avoid that type of behavior around women, I will completely excuse their behavior, for a lot of reasons.

1. They're professional athletes, possibly the most testosterone-filled males on the planet

2. They were in THEIR LOCKER ROOM, a place meant for being naked, crass, and fully (disgustingly) male

3. If a woman dresses TO GET attention, she needs to shut up about "harassment" when she GETS the attention

I'll address each point in turn, since I have your attention now.

1. PRO ATHLETES

Do you know the average NFL career length? Something like 2 or 3 years. Do you know how many former ballplayers die in their 50's or 60's or have a terrible time even walking around on their own two feet when they're in their 40's?

Other people (such as Malcolm Gladwell's article on football, dogfighting, and concussions) have written about these modern day gladiators, so I'll spare you.

But it's so hypocritical of Roger Goodell to expect his peons – nothing more than cogs in his machine – to perform at an incredibly high level, and yet all be lily-white consummate professionals, all the time.

Look, many of these guys come from nothing, and through sheer testosterone and athletic ability they make it to the Show. They then get paid millions of dollars to abuse their bodies and abuse each other. It's mano-a-mano, every day.

Machismo rules – the tougher you are, the harder you hit, the faster you run, the more powerful and energetic you are, the more rich and famous you become.

Along with that comes a sense of entitlement, especially towards women. In every culture in the world, pretty women will get with guys they wouldn't otherwise, if the guys are rich / famous / powerful. Which all go hand-in-hand. So you have pro-football offensive linemen – big, fat, ugly dudes – with fashion model girlfriends.

Like I said during the Tiger Woods crucifixion – it's totally ignorant for society to expect these men to perform at an incredibly high level and yet never act out on the elevated sex drive that goes along with that high level of performance.

For every AC Green or Tim Tebow, there are 9,999 guys knocking boots with groupies after every road game. It's stupid for anyone to expect any different. Everyone's all-American Tom Brady would be doing the same thing if he weren't going home to the world's top supermodel every night. Who he first started dating while his actress ex-girlfriend was pregnant with his child.

It's football. It's pro sports. I'm not here to debate the morality of shacking up with groupies, that's not my point – I'm saying the hypocrisy of the fans and society is based in ignorance of how humanity is wired.

If you want to deify pro athletes, taking them from poverty to ridiculous riches (hundreds of millions of dollars), rockstar fame, and way more social influence than they deserve, then you better expect them to take the one remaining trinket afforded to all who are rich, famous, and powerful, and sleep with the most beautiful women they can.

As Tiger Woods said, "I thought I was entitled to it."

It hasn't changed in humanity's history, and it never will. You'd likely do the same thing if you were in their shoes. But hopefully you'd pick hotter groupies.

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2. THE LOCKER ROOM

This "incident" supposedly took place in the locker room and on the field. As a former player, I will tell you there is not a more crass place on earth than a men's locker room. Historically, for a guy, that's a SAFE place, a place where no matter how old he is, no matter if he's a 15 year old prep star and student body president or the CEO of a large company on his lunch break at 24 Hour Fitness, that's a safe place to just be a dude and be juvenile. 

Dirty jokes, belching, farting, pranking a friend by replacing their jock-itch cream with Icy-Hot. That's the norm.

SO WHAT IS A WOMAN DOING IN THERE?!

Yes, I'll be sexist and politically incorrect. It's PC that has gotten us into this mess in the first place! We must have "equality" so that means women have to have access to the locker rooms, just like the male reporters do.

Really? I can't get a journalist pass for the Pepperdine women's soccer team locker room. And lord knows I would be the most passionate reporter on the planet with that credential.

Ines_superbowl Give me a break. If a woman goes into a men's locker room, she needs to realize she's on THEIR turf, and they shouldn't have to suddenly change and "be professionals" while they're in there.

The scene in Any Given Sunday always comes back to mind when these incidents happen. Cameron Diaz' character is in the locker room interviewing these guys 3x her size, and they're all walking around naked, with 12" penises. It's a revealing, awkward, poignant scene.

Because if she's uncomfortable in that situation, WHAT DOES SHE EXPECT?

It's hypocritical (as usual) of th
e NFL to come down hard on the Jets for their behavior. Oh no, they whistled at the girl. Oh no, they acted like middle-school boys and played catch near where she was standing. It's harmless, immature, boyish fun!

They're expected to be in tip-top physical shape all year (which blasts their already high sex drives into overdrive), bash their brains in every Sunday, and yet somehow act like meek little innocent boys when a woman comes around while they're naked and talking dirty about the ho they hooked up with the night before?

3. YOU SHAKE THAT BOOTY IN THAT TIGHT LITTLE MINI-SKIRT, GUYS WILL WATCH IT WIGGLE

I'll focus my beef here with the reporter herself, Ines Sainz. She's from Mexico. She's a Latina. I live in Latin America and have traveled the region extensively.

There is not a more vocal, machismo society on the planet with regards to "sexi mamacitas" than latin culture. Yes, they love family and the virgin Mary and Jesus, but if a woman walks down the street with those perfect caramel legs protruding from a tight little bit of denim wrapped around a plump Kardashian-esque booty, every guy's looking, every guy's whistling and hanging out the window of his best friend's ride trying to holla at her.

The girls know the game. The guys play the game. It's innocent. It's harmless. It's how they communicate, whether you think it's un-evolved or not.

Maybe Ines has been in the US too long, with its pathetic nice-guy routine, its retarded political correctness, its easy money judicial system if you're a woman and say a guy "harassed" you because you think he's ugly and he told you he liked your hair today.

You know the charge being leveled at the Jets? They WHISTLED at her. They played catch too close to her. They LOOKED at her!

Seriously? She's mad because they looked at her?

Ines-sainz3 Sweety, if you cram that bubble-butt into those jeans so tight they have to be peeled off you, I think we both know you ain't doing it because they're comfortable. You want attention.

The fact that you look like that is the reason you've got the job you have in the first place!

So, just a friendly reminder, when you get that attention, smile and shake your hips like your Latina sisters would do, and enjoy the attention. Because in a few years, when nobody is whistling at you anymore because you're saggy old and wrinkled (dang that's horrible isn't it), you're going to wish you had any attention at all.

Beauty and butts are fleeting. Work it while you've got it. And ideally, cultivate some other personality traits to carry you through life when they're gone.

But for the love of sanity, don't whine and cry about getting a few catcalls!

Now, since I know there will be some sniveling pc-nazi who'll try and make the impossible leap, I am in NO WAY saying real harassment or abuse is ok.

But it's pretty stupid to try and equate whistling at a pretty girl with rape, wouldn't you agree? I thought so. So don't be an idiot. There's no comparison.

Personal violation of any kind is completely wrong (although our government seems to think it's ok to force us all to bend over, and a lot of people must agree considering they keep voting the perpetrators into power…). No means no, always. Except when it doesn't, apparently, like when the voice of the people says no to the Feds. But I digress.

However, if a girl dresses like Ines apparently likes to, or posts half-naked pictures on the internet, or walks around in 5 inch heels, she should expect to get some attention. Obviously. That's the only reason she's dressing like that – attention for being sexy boosts a girl's stock value.

So basically, yes – I'm saying the NFL is being hypocritical, society is being hypocritical, the sexy latina reporter is being pathetic, and a bunch of immature, womanizing frat-boys are totally innocent. Haha not what you were expecting from me I'm sure.

I'm not saying I personally would have behaved like that. I probably would have been a bit more classy, spit some game in Spanish, they always seem to like the gringo attempting to flirt: "Me likey you tall floral. Us we ride car, eat goat. You I call?"

Seriously though – it's so stupid that there's outrage about this.

Society pushes and pushes to castrate males, to make them more docile and controllable, and then wonders why our culture is falling apart and there are no "real men" around. And on the flipside society showers the ones that keep their balls with fame and fortune, but then wonders why they can't control them.

You can't have your cake and eat it too. Ines, like the rest of society, needs to hearken back to her own cultural mores – men are men, women are women, God and family are important, and everybody has fun.

Men and women are equal in the eyes of God, sure. But they weren't created to have equal roles. When people fail to accept the inherent differences, they push for political correctness, which is just a hypocritical push for a faux "equality", which is never really equal (see: men not being allowed in womens' locker rooms).

But subsequently, we wind up in situations like this, where a woman got her equal rights but then freaks out because – gasp – she got treated like the sexy vixen she postures as. She probably likes to think that it's her brains and journalist skills that got her there, but…we all know better.

If you want to enter a men's locker room as woman, and your sexuality and beauty is what landed you the job that got you through the doors, you'd better be prepared for what's in there. Because men will be men, and that's never going to change. Nor should it.

There's a reason that bullriders don't castrate the bulls – they're far less entertaining in the ring.

A men's locker room is a nasty, nasty place. If you aren't man enough to enter, then don't. And if you can't stomach what happens to a pretty lil thing when she enters, then perhaps you should rethink how good of an idea it is to allow women in those locker rooms at all.

But don't put the blame on the guys, who are trained from childhood and paid as men to do what is in their nature to do.

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